This is related to How to achieve equivalent multline in LaTeX? and How to add fractional spacing in equation? with a few suggestions, including:
#set math.equation(numbering:"(1)")
$
a + b + c + d + & e + f \
+ med i + & j + k + l + m + n
$
$
a + b + c + & d + e \
+ med & f + i \
+ med & j + k + l + m + n
$
